First Official Match addendum By C I have been signing and handing out Bonus Checks all morning. I arrive home at 1 PM CST full of the Christmas Spirit. My wife is out shopping so I decide to check and respond to: my business e-mail site; personal site and family site. I return some phone calls. The last one was my wife laughing and telling me to check: grappler2@mail.com. I am blown away. I usually receive 3 to 5 a week that generate from Mike JV's site and a dozen to two dozen from the Valkyrie site. These are the only two sites I post on. I posted my Match account on Mike's site around 11PM. I have received 34 e- mails with questions or comments. Usually I answer my e-mails. (Not always) Since it is so close to Christmas and the Valkyrie site will be posting the Match tonight; I have decided to post an addendum answering your questions and common themes that run through the e-mails. I will then use this addendum to post on the Valkyrie site to answer the questions that they have. This probably is going to be very boring to read since my eyes are glazing over writing it. I will be paraphrasing the questions. Has my relationship changed with her parents or her? We get along fine. I have refereed several of her matches. I understand how people can get carried away. (I have myself) Why did you view the videotape? I wanted it to be accurate. Am I handicapped? I had several e-mails that indicated that I gave them the impression that I was some out of shape old guy. NO! My knee is healed. I don't have a limp. I can't jog anymore and receive my Cardio through swimming, bike riding and other low impact activities. The restrictions in any match are precautionary not because I can't walk. As far as my conditioning; I am 50 years old in excellent shape. 5'10"; 175pounds. I do weight training 3 days a week and cardio 5 days. I do Kempo to maintain my flexibility. Why didn't you expand on your treatment? Because it's painful and boring is the short answer. I haven't learned how to make: getting X-Rays; having fluid drained off my knee and having anti- inflammatory drugs pumped into me interesting. I was on painkillers during most of the initial treatment Emergency Room. What did the Emergency Room personnel say about the conditions of my privates? I was wearing briefs; no one saw anything. Why didn't I stay in the Hospital and why did they let me go? Possibility of too many questions and my condition would be the same at home. I had spoken with my Doctor who had accompanied me. He viewed the X-rays and called in a favor with a specialist to operate in two days. (The favor involved him doing it -I still played for the operation.) The reason they let me go is because I requested to and I signed a waiver. The Doctor treated the damage to my balls and penis over the next four days. The main penalty was only able to give oral sex to my wife and receive -NOTHING - due to the pain and swelling. What about work? I own my own business and ran things from home for two weeks. I have excellent people. Did you want to lose the match? Not No - but - HELL NO! I simply didn't prepare mentally and underestimated her. Due to her speed and surprising strength; I grudgingly must admit she could have beaten me anyways. By not being prepared and focused. I was injured. At 6'1"; 145 #; She used her arms like whips which had a devastating and unexpected effect when landing. We do our standings like Nascar in the since that every January everyone begins at 0. We have a party in Mid-December crowning Champions for the year. There are 26 people in the "Under 40" Division. She finished 6th this year. There are 18 people in the "Over 40" Division and my wife finished 14th. (I had to mention this because I know she will be reading this!) As a side bar; a special award was given to me (as a joke) at the end of 03, which is still in practice today. It is called the Purple "P" Award. I was awarded a Dildo painted purple secured to a fine oak stand for receiving worst ass kicking of the year. The "P" stands for Penis or Pussy depending on the gender. The appropriate sex organ is painted purple and secured to a wood base and presented at the end of the year. (It was a Pussy this year.) A few said," THE WHOLE THING IS BULLSHIT. WHY ARE YOU YANKING OUR CHAIN? " First of all; I don't really care IF you believe me or not. I am simply giving an account of something that I was reminded of over a game of cards. After viewing the video a second and third time, I thought others might be interested. Where are the moves that are in my fiction? ANSWER: In my Fiction. The story is frankly too pedestrian to be fiction. No spectacular moves or high risk moves. Who would I relate an account where my ass is kicked by another Member's DAUGHTER? Why would I relate my entire Club record that shows I have lost to women? Who paid the medical bill in the thousands? Emergency Room Surgery Specialist Physical therapy Who would want the distinction of receiving the Worst Injury in Club History (26 years)? That would be - ME! I am through - everyone can wake up now . Have a very merry Christmas !